Reconciliation
Part 6 Theological and Pastoral Issues
Chapter r66 First Reconciliation and Initiation
How would you describe the relationship between Initiation and
Reconciliation?
What do you remember of your experience of the Sacrament of Reconciliation?
Did you celebrate First Reconciliation before or after your first reception of
the Eucharist? What rite was used? How did you
feel?
Has your learning regarding Reconciliation been in terms of initiation or in
terms of Reconciliation as a distinct sacrament?
Does your (arch)diocese have guidelines regarding the first celebration of
the Sacrament of Reconciliation?
When does a catechumen first receive the
Sacrament of Reconciliation? When and how is the preparation and
catechesis for this to be done?
When does an adult Candidate for Full Communion first receive the Sacrament
of Reconciliation? When and how is the preparation and catechesis for this to be
done?
When does a child baptized Catholic in infancy first receive the Sacrament of
Reconciliation? When and how is the preparation and catechesis for this to be
done?
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Baars, Conrad. "The Psychology of Childhood Confessions," St.
Anthony Messenger, March 1965.
Brusselmans, Christiane. "Children and the Sacrament of Reconciliation."
Worship 49 (1975), pp 149-157. [She argues for the need of a children’s rite
of reconciliation much as we now have a rite for infant baptism. She argues for
a communal rite with general absolution for first confession. She would have
children introduced to individual confession at much later age.]
Gaupin, Linda. "Let Those Who Have Faith Not Be Hasty: Penance and Children,"
in Robert Kennedy, (editor), Reconciliation: The Continuing Agenda,
Collegeville: The Liturgical Press, 1987, pp 219-237.
Guzie, Tad. The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults: A Rite Only for
Grownups? Federation of Diocesan Liturgical Commissions.
Huels, John M. "First Confession" in Disputed Questions in the Liturgy
Today, Chicago: Liturgy Training Publications, 1988, pp 67-74.
Kennedy, Robert J. "Baptism, Eucharist, and Penance: Theological and
Liturgical Connections" in Kennedy, pp 43-52.
Orsy, Ladislas. "The Sins of Those Little Ones," America, December 8,
1973.
Catechetical Materials for First Penance: Many publishers provide materials for sacramental preparation for First
Reconciliation. Rather than list these materials here I suggest that you contact
the Office of Catholic Education of your local (arch)diocese. For example, the
Office of Catholic Education for the Archdiocese of Indianapolis has published
Religious Education Material for Preschool and Elementary Levels, January
1992.
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1. Sometimes when we come to a new city, some approaches give a better photo
opportunity than other approaches, [For example, approaching Jerusalem from the
East, even when driving from the airport which is west of the city.] Sometimes entering a room
through one door gives you a different perspective
of the room than entering through another door. [For example, when I enter a
church or cathedral for the first time, I like to come in through the principal
entrance so that the principal door shapes my first impression of the space.] Through which "door" have you entered the "theological room" Reconciliation?
[Recall the catechetical metaphor: "moving the furniture"]
2. Post-Tridentine sacramental theology entered by way of "general
sacramental theology" and then each of the seven sacraments was viewed
individually and distinctly. Post-Vatican II sacramental theology enters through
(1) Jesus, the principal sacrament which is experienced in (2) the Body of
Christ continuing the Sacramentality of Jesus in the Church (3) as
expressed most fully in the Eucharist (4) which in its first celebration is baptism
/ confirmation / Eucharist (5) and the other sacraments reflecting that sacrament.
3. Try and enter the "room" (area of understanding) "Reconciliation" through the
door "Initiation" and see what perspective it gives.
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Order of the Sacraments: Baptism Confirmation Eucharist
Effects of Baptism – forgives all sins.
Devotional celebration of Reconciliation during Lent of the second year
Mystagogia.
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Respect for individual conscience: Are non-Catholics bound by Church law?
Necessary for Catholics only in case of grave mortal sin. Celebration of
devotion? Useful?
Catechesis before Lent preceding Easter of their Full Communion
Celebration during Lent preceding Easter of their Full Communion
The Rite of Reception of Baptized Christians into Full Communion of the
Catholic Church, #482: "If the profession of faith and reception take place
within Mass, the candidate, according to his or her own conscience,
should make a confession of sins beforehand, first informing the confessor that
he or she is about to be received into full communion. Any confessor who is
lawfully approved may hear the candidate’s confession." According to his or her
own conscience, Should, not "must"
The National Statutes for the Catechumenate approved by the National
Conference of Catholic Bishops on 11 November 1986, no. 36, states: "The
celebration of the sacrament of reconciliation with candidates for reception
into full communion is to be carried out at a time prior to and distinct from
the celebration of the rite of reception." No.27 states basically the same thing
about the sacrament of reconciliation with candidates for confirmation and
eucharist.
The Eucharist itself is the primary and fundamental sacrament of
reconciliation. " Reconciled in the eucharist, the members of the body of Christ
are called to be servants of reconciliation among men and women and witnesses of
the joy of resurrection. As Jesus went out to publicans and sinners and had
table-fellowship with them during his earthly ministry, so Christians are called
in the eucharist to be in solidarity with the outcast and to become signs of the
love of Christ who lived and sacrificed himself for all and now gives himself in
the eucharist." (Baptism-Confirmation-Eucharist, the Lima Statement, E24)
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Those persons who were baptized Roman Catholic as infants but for some reason
did not receive Confirmation: Perhaps they were never catechized; perhaps their
family was moving when Confirmation was celebrated for adolescents in the
parish; or perhaps they were inactive Catholics and are now returning to the
practice of the faith. [Note: inactive Roman Catholics taken together would form
the second-largest religion in the United States!]
RE-MEMBERING CHURCH INSTITUTE is a four-day institute designed for pastoral
ministers who want to deepen their understanding of reconciling alienated
Catholics. The topics include kinds of alienation, reaching out to the alienated
and the different journeys of return. Contact: the North American Forum on the
Catechumenate, 5510 Columbia Bike, Suite 310, Arlington VA 22204. Phone
(703)671-0330.
The National Statutes for the Catechumenate approved by the National
Conference of Catholic Bishops on 11 November 1986, no. 36, states: "The
celebration of the sacrament of reconciliation with candidates for reception
into full communion is to be carried out at a time prior to and distinct from
the celebration of the rite of reception." No.27 states basically the same thing
about the sacrament of reconciliation with candidates for confirmation and
eucharist.
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Apostolic Constitutions: Roman bathing = washing off and oiling up [one act]
Growth in the 4th century
Presbyters preside at beginning of initiation
Oil gets separated from bathing
Eventually — Baptism penance confirmation eucharist
The invention of adolescence [14 was adult]
Eucharist — Pope St. Pius X (1835-1914) in 1905 encourages frequent Communion
and in 1910 lowers the age for First Communion. The Liturgical Movement.
Pius XII, Mediator Dei. See: Richstatter, Liturgical Law
Today, page xx.
Confirmation moved to 8th grade penance is in 8th grade
Communion moved to first grade. Penance moved to first grade. Confirmation
left hanging.
The Age for Confirmation:
The theology of a rite should not be dependent upon the age at which it is
celebrated. "The true test of our theology of Confirmation would seem to be
whether it is applicable at any age. The great temptation is to let this
theology be determined too narrowly by the a priori issue of age." (See: Smits.
Op cit. p 23.), Catechetical development (Rome - not in favor of diversity, New
Code of Canon Law), Movement in USA for Confirmation by pastor (delegated by
Bishop) to confirm at the Mass of First Eucharist (Keeps the order: Baptism
Confirmation Eucharist, The Bishop’s visit to the parish becomes just that)
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33-300 A.D. No record of children going to confession. No record of anyone
going to confession. Baptism forgave all sins; eucharist was the ordinary
sacrament of forgiveness for post-baptismal sin.
300-600 A.D. Canonical penance was for adults only. We have no record of
children participating in canonical penance.
600-900 A.D. Celtic penance: Celtic penance was for adults. We have no record
in the Penitentiaries of remedies for children’s sins.
1300 A.D. Scholastic Confession: Christians baptized as infants receive
First
Communion at the onset of adulthood (at about the age of 14 to 21). First
Confession precedes First Eucharist.
1905 December 22. (Pius X) Sacred Congregation of the Council, decree "Sacra Tridentina Synodus" on the
frequent reception of the Most Holy Eucharist. As Holy Communion becomes more frequent,
confession (which had always preceded Eucharist when one received Eucharist once
a year) also becomes more frequent. Weekly Eucharist implies weekly
confession.
1910 August 08. (Pius X) Sacred Congregation for the Discipline of the
Sacraments, decree Quam singulari (on the age at which one is to be
admitted to first Eucharistic Communion). Quam singulari assumes that
Confession is a preparation for Communion but there is no norm or
requirement that First Confession must precede First Communion.
"The breakdown of the holistic patristic vision [of Christian
Initiation] into its component parts in the medieval church--leading to a list
of seven discrete sacraments--ultimately dissolved in the West the ancient order
and unity of the triple mystery of initiation in baptism--Chrismation
(Confirmation)-Eucharist. -- The denouement of this collapse came, ironically, as a result
of one of the most successful liturgical reforms in history: St. Pius X's decree
Sacra Tridentina Synodus (1905) on the frequency of Communion, and his
lowering of the age or reason in Quam Singulari (1910). Pius X's
stunningly successful reform had the deleterious side effect of shifting the
time of first Communion to before confirmation -- an unheard-of novelty totally
contrary to the universal ancient tradition of East and West -- and displacing
first confession so that it proceeded first Communion . This destroyed the
age-old sequence of the rites of Christian initiation. And it turned the
sacrament of penance, originally intended to reconcile grave sinners, into one
of the rites of Christian initiation in the Catholic West." (Robert F Taft,
S.J., America, May 26-June 2, 2008, p12.)
1917 Code of Canon Law: The 1917 Code of Canon Law does not
impose any obligation of First Confession prior to First Communion.
1955-1970 Catechetical and Psychological developments: During these years the
findings of psychology regarding the development of a child’s moral sense during
early childhood were incorporated into the catechetical preparation for the
celebration of First Penance. This was particularly prominent at Lumen Vitae in
Belgium and the Catechetical Institute in Paris. Graduates from these schools
returned to the United States and began to implement what they had learned about
the developmental stages of moral growth. As a result, preparation for first penance begins
be delayed and takes place in 3rd or 4th grade rather
than in first grade. These developments achieve special prominence in the
archdiocese of Detroit under Cardinal Dearden, who was an eminent liturgist and
a member of the Sacred Congregation of Rites and the first president of what was
to become the Bishops’ Committee on the Liturgy after the Second Vatican Council
[now: The USCCB Committee on Divine Worship]
1963 Dec 04, Vatican II, Constitution on the Liturgy
(Sacrosanctum Concilium) #72 "The rite and formularies for
the sacrament of penance are to be revised so that they more clearly express
both the nature and effect of the sacrament."
1966 Feb 17. Paul VI. Poenitemini. Apostolic Constitution on Fast and
Abstinence (i.e. on Penance and Conversion).
1970. By 1970 fifty-one percent (51%) of the dioceses in the United States
had implemented policies which called for the distinct and separate catechesis
of penance and eucharist as well as a delay in the reception of penance until
after first eucharist. (See: Linda Gaupin, "Let Those Who Have Faith Not Be
Hasty: Penance and Children," in Robert Kennedy, (editor), Reconciliation:
The Continuing Agenda, Collegeville: The Liturgical Press, 1987, pp
219-237.)
A survey of the bishops in these dioceses showed that eighty-five percent (85%) of the
ordinaries agreed that the new practices made for a better reception of first
communion especially since the reception of the eucharist did not require the
higher intellectual, moral, and psychological demands that were required by
penance. The bishops also affirmed three other major points:
1. That the delay of first penance until the ages of eight or ten years of age
had shown positive effects;
2. That the right to receive first penance before first communion be maintained;
3. That it was desirable to continue the practice [of preparing for first
Penance at the age of eight or ten] in the United States after
first communicating with the Holy See. (See Linda Gaupin, "Let Those Who Have
Faith Not Be Hasty: Penance and Children," in Robert Kennedy, (editor),
Reconciliation: The Continuing Agenda, Collegeville: The Liturgical Press,
1987, pp 219-237.)
One Dutch catechist admirably summarized our catechesis for penance in the
following words: "Let those who have faith not be hasty lest the spiritual
impulses of the child be satiated before they are unlocked. Our education
suffers from 'too early and too much.' We anticipate constantly. We drag the
children towards God instead of letting them come...and not hindering them, as
the Gospel teaches us. We say 'learn it now and do it now even if you do not
desire it.' Meanwhile we think that we risk nothing because we have done
everything." (See Linda Gaupin, "Let Those Who Have Faith Not Be Hasty: Penance
and Children," in Robert Kennedy, (editor), Reconciliation: The Continuing
Agenda, Collegeville: The Liturgical Press, 1987, pp 219-237.)
1971 We begin to see a movement in the other direction. E.g.
Cardinal Wright of Chicago caught the ear of the powers that be in Rome.
Note: The Church sometimes "hesitates" to incorporate the findings of
science into its theological
reasoning. Kirsten Gilbert wrote her MTS paper on "Issues
Surrounding the Preparation of Children for the Sacrament of Reconciliation" in
which she described the findings of "the human sciences" regarding the
development of "right and wrong" in children and how these findings impact the
catechesis for the celebration of First Reconciliation.
1971 Apr 11. General Catechetical Directory returns things to
pre-1955 and states: ". . . the Holy See
judges it fitting that the practice now in force in the Church of putting
Confession ahead of first Communion should be retained" (addendum, #5).
1973 May 24. Congregation for the Discipline of the Sacraments and the
Congregation for the Clergy issue a joint declaration concerning the first
reception of the sacraments of Penance and the Eucharist by children, bringing
an end to the practice of preparation for Penance being given after
first Communion. (Note: private individual confession of children
before First Eucharist gives the pastor a way to check to see if the DRE has
sufficiently explained Transubstantiation.)
Response of the French Bishops to the Pope's letter Sanctus Pontifex.
"We agree that it is a terrible thing to deny the sacrament of penance to little
Children who are in the state of moral sin, but here in France children aged six
or seven do not have the psychological capacity of committing such acts ..."
1973. Division of Religious Education – CCD; United States Catholic
Conference published: A Study Paper for First Confession. 1973. Washington:
Publications Office USCC. Publication no. 45 pp. Publications Office USCC.
Many catechists are fired.
1979. Sharing the light of faith; National Catechetical Directory for
Catholics of the United States. 1979. Washington: Publications Office USCC.
Publication no. NCD-1.
1979 April 2 Bishops’ Committee on the Liturgy proposes Rite for the
Penance for Children. [Action item from the Minutes of the Bishop’s
Committee on the Liturgy, April 2, 1979: The judgment of the group was that the
proposed "Rite for the Penance for Children" does not adequately meet existing
needs. The priests, Bishop Speltz noted, question the form of the absolution. Sr. Jocelyn felt that it was still too adult; Fr. McManus believed that it did
not take us any place. Whereas both Frs. Notebaart and Last indicated that
guidelines would be adequate, Fr. Krouse observed that not all confessors are
able to work with only guidelines. Among the options offered, the suggestion
that "BCL provide two or more national adaptations including the prayer of
absolution for submission to the NCCB and the Holy See" emerged as most
acceptable. Archbishop Weakland did, however, indicate that it would take a
strong position paper to effect a change in the form of absolution that would be
acceptable to the Holy See. At that point, Bishop Gracida called for the vote.]
Motion: "That the BCL provide two or more national adaptations of the
Rite of
Penance for use with children, including the form of absolution, for submission
to the NCCB and Holy See." Vote Advisors: 9 yes; 0 no; Members: 6 yes; 0 no
This motion by the BCL went nowhere and was lost and forgotten.
Clearly, the Committee both advisors (liturgists) and members (bishops) felt
that the current Rite of Penance was not adequate for children but their
proposals to fix the situation died.
1983. Code of Canon Law. Canons 914, 988, and 989. See also the
commentary on Canon 914 by John M. Huels OSM in CLSA Commentary, p 653. First time children must go before eucharist.
Canon 913 — §1. For the administration of the Most Holy Eucharist to
children, it is required that they have sufficient knowledge and careful
preparation so as to understand the mystery of Christ according to their
capacity, and can receive the Body of the Lord with faith and devotion.
§2. The Most Holy Eucharist may be given to children who are in danger of
death, however, if they are able to distinguish the Body of Christ from ordinary
food into receive Communion reverently.
Canon 914 — It is the responsibility, in the first place, of parents and
those who take the place of parents as well as of the pastor to see that children
who have reached the use of reason are correctly preparing and are nourished by
the divine food as early as possible, preceded by sacramental confession
[emphasis added]; it is
also for the pastor to be vigilant lest any children come to the Holy Banquet
who have not reached the use of reason or whom he judges are not sufficiently
disposed.
Regarding Canon 914, John M. Huels, O.S.M. in the CLSA Commentary on the Code (p 653)
states: "In the years following Vatican II there was rather widespread experimentation
with the practice of delaying first penance until after first Communion, but the
Apostolic See repeatedly ordered that these experiments be halted. Nevertheless,
canons 988 and 989, based on the discipline of the Council of Trent, require
only those conscious of serious sin to confess before receiving Communion, and
this also applies to children receiving first Communion. It does not seem that
the intention of this Canon is to subrogate this long-standing discipline but
rather to suggest that the right of children to the sacrament of penance can be
served best when pastors and catechists offer formation for penance appropriate
to the level of the child making first Communion and provide the opportunity for
penance before first Communion for those children who need or desire the sacrament. Hence, children who do not approach the sacrament of penance
should not be deprived of their right to make first Holy Communion.
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Criteria for evaluating liturgical celebrations of First
Reconciliation with Children who have been baptized Roman Catholic as Infants
1. The liturgy should that of the current Roman Ritual Rite of Penance.
2. The liturgy is typical of the way they will celebrate the sacrament in the
future, that is Rite II or Rite III. There is no reason why a child should ever
experience Rite I. There is no reason why a child should ever enter a
“confessional” or a Reconciliation chapel.
3. The overall experience should be one of joy and celebration. The paradigm for
the celebration is Eucharist (e.g. celebrated standing, at the altar, etc. as is
Eucharist and Holy Communion).
4. The liturgy should involve the parish – or at lest the parents and families
of the children celebrating the sacrament for the first time.
5. The liturgy respects the current norms for the safety and protection of
children – e.g. the priest and the child are in full view of the congregation at
all times.
6. As with any liturgical celebration, there should be active participation,
music, flowers, candles, vestments, Scripture readings, homily, general
intercessions, etc. in accord with the liturgical season. Liturgy is not “just
words” but a symbolic action.
Criteria for judging catechetical programs preparing Children who have been
baptized Roman Catholic as Infants for the celebration of the Sacrament of
Reconciliation.
1. The catechesis respects the stages of faith development of the children and
the stages of moral development of the children corresponding to their
chronological age.
2. The emphasis is placed on God’s love rather than on human sinfulness. The
“most important thing” is “what Jesus does” – not the confession of sins.
[Reference is to the story by Fr. Bernard Härring.]
3. The concept of sin corresponds to the faith experience of the children. The
presumption of the catechist is that the children are all in the “state of
grace” and “mortal sin” is rare for young children, and perhaps, even impossible
for young children. There is no moral “need” for First Reconciliation before
First Eucharist.
4. The catechesis should involve the parents at every stage.
5. Reconciliation is not a Sacrament of Initiation. The sacraments of initiation
are Baptism, Confirmation, and Eucharist and should be celebrated in that order:
Baptism, Confirmation, and then Eucharist. (The bishops are aware of the burden
this places on the catechist to prepare children of 7 or 8 years of age for the
celebration of the sacraments Reconciliation, and Confirmation, and Eucharist at
the same time.)
6. The catechesis is directed to life long learning and faith development. It
does not simply present a “model confession” and list of sins that can be
repeated for the rest of one’s life.
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How would the following teach their catechists to prepare children for their
first celebration of the Sacrament of Reconciliation?
St. Bede, Abbot of St. Paul in Jarrow (672-735)
St. Thomas Aquinas (1225-1274)
St. Charles Borromeo (1538-1584) using The Catechism of Trent
St. John Vianney the Curé d’ Ares
(1786-1859)
St. Maximilian Kolbe (1894-1941).
Fr. Phillip Johnson, Pastor of St. Anthony’s, Wichita, KS (1942-1950)
Pope John Paul III (2020).
Pope Benedict XVI and the Sacrament of
Reconciliation for children. The online news agency Zenit
reported that on October 16, 2005, in anticipation of the end of the Year of the
Eucharist, Pope Benedict XVI invited children who were receiving their first
Communion to a meeting in St. Peter’s square. Some 100,000 children came. Some
of the children were selected to have a conversation with the pope. They talked
about the Eucharist, of course, but one little girl ask him “why she should go
to confession before going to Communion when she always commits the same sins.
The Pope laughed when he heard the question. ‘It's true, in general our sins are
always the same, but we clean our house, our room, at least every week, although
the dirt is always the same,’ the pope said. Confession is necessary only in the
case of grave sin; ‘but it is very useful to go to confession regularly to
cultivate cleanliness and beauty of soul, and to mature little by little in
life,’ he explained.”
Metanoia, "conversion" comes from the Greek verb meaning "turn around, come back."
Why do you say to a child who is not in the process of coming toward you
(Christian initiation) “Turn around! Come back!” Initiation = coming into. Penance = turn around (metanoia). If a child is coming
toward you, do you call to the child “turn around!”
Does God condemn children to hell?
What country has capital punishment for children?
Parents are biggest example. What if parents don’t go themselves? Are we
introducing children into something that their parents no longer do?
Directory for Masses with Children stresses that we are not just a going through
the motions but that we need skills for this active celebration: thanksgiving,
words of forgiveness, way to sign, talk, listening, etc. What if there
were a Directory for Masses with Adolescents? or a Directory for Reconciliation with Adolescents?
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